There's this episode of Sex and the City where Charlotte announces she's leaving her job to focus on having a baby, charity work, and her redecorating project. Miranda gets judgemental and snotty, of course, and Charlotte stews over it until the next morning. Over the phone, she calls Miranda out for sniping at her, and starts yelling, "I choose my choice! I choose my choice!" Miranda gets so bent that she throws her back out, and she ends up flat on the floor, where Aidan, Carrie's boyfriend, rescues her later on.
I'm having a bit of an "I choose my choice" moment right now. Seriously, when people ask/say ridiculous, intrusive, insulting things, why isn't it socially acceptable to tell them to piss off?