tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879205.post7754973158195028378..comments2023-08-17T02:23:39.966-06:00Comments on Spotted Dog Turn: MomMaerlowehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12045052250287649750noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879205.post-18853052589919858912009-01-19T15:57:00.000-06:002009-01-19T15:57:00.000-06:00I'm with ya'll about the anonymous contact. Maybe ...I'm with ya'll about the anonymous contact. Maybe Stephen's attorney ad litem will agree to be the neutral party, though I know she'll disapprove of us making contact. Her opinion of Huck's parents and family is... not good.Maerlowehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12045052250287649750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879205.post-9210009435455940112009-01-19T10:42:00.000-06:002009-01-19T10:42:00.000-06:00I agree, if I were you I would also send informati...I agree, if I were you I would also send information, but make it totally anonymous, and impossible for them to contact you back. <BR/><BR/>If you give them an update, then also let them know you hope there can be contact later, I'm sure that will be very helpful to them and might encourage his mother to improve her lifestyle.<BR/><BR/>Perhaps you could impart this message, in not so many words, atlasienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07242606440109684169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879205.post-47678603635641723522009-01-18T10:57:00.000-06:002009-01-18T10:57:00.000-06:00I agree with Yondalla and Maggie - send info throu...I agree with Yondalla and Maggie - send info through an intermediary. Make sure you really trust them to never disclose your location... Also, I might time it so that it happens right before you move - that way if any location ever gets tracked, it will be to the old place.<BR/><BR/>Protecting him (and yourselves) is a good thing - so try not to feel guilty about it.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08954918065641135178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879205.post-9072285672084320622009-01-18T03:16:00.000-06:002009-01-18T03:16:00.000-06:00I agree with Yondalla. And maybe it would be smart...I agree with Yondalla. And maybe it would be smart to make the first contact after you've moved out of state (and make sure there's no information about moving out of state in the letter). You have to keep him safe. <BR/><BR/>My son recently asked to contact his birth mom. I want him to do so someday, but I question whether he's emotionally ready for it now. He has rose-colored glasses where his Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06956114780055557451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879205.post-82588296914594063482009-01-17T21:54:00.000-06:002009-01-17T21:54:00.000-06:00It seems like the safe thing to do is to send info...It seems like the safe thing to do is to send information through a social worker or lawyer. You could let them know he is well, offer to send more photos or letters, but not make personal contact. If you do that, when Huckle gets older it would be easier for him to make contact if he wanted.Yondallahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10375966725096729570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879205.post-15704600420117580022009-01-17T20:51:00.000-06:002009-01-17T20:51:00.000-06:00You're protecting your son. That doesn't sound sel...You're protecting your son. That doesn't sound selfish at all.Lishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12398696599200082368noreply@blogger.com